Love is so many positive things such as goodness, kindness, patience, giving… To say love is blind is incorrect. Love is by choice and it’s intentional.You can’t love your spouse if you don’t love yourself. Do you really love yourself? God’s kind of love is unconditional! How much do you love your spouse?
To the singles
Don’t let pressure or other factors hinder you from being factual about those things you see in your partner that need to be addressed before you get married. Marriage is not a salve that will fix bad habits or inherent bad attitudes. You need to ask yourself if you could cope with them in the event your partner does not change. You need to talk about them with your partner and work on them together. You may need to go for counseling, Do you need to take a break to think and pray? Love is not blind!
Keep loving, stay married!
Eunice Oderinde
